I was reading an article on the HT style column of Hindustan Times on the latest link-up between the bluffmaster, Abhishek Bachchan and the traitor, Aishwarya Rai. After reading this article, something struck me. Well, it was mentioned at the end with a quote from “a leading actor” who chose to be anonymous (probably a good move). He said, “There seems to be a pattern in Aishwarya Rai’s relationships. She got involved with Salman Khan when he was at the peak of his career. She started seeing Viveik Oberoi when his career was on the upswing. And now that Abhishek is doing well, we hear that she’s seeing him.”
I find this to be a good observation and if you think about it, it’s very much true. Aishwarya has done her share of things to get publicity out of other actors’ fame. First it was Salman Khan who was doing well for himself and there we saw Ms. Rai right by him but after being on Salman’s side for two years and rubbing his much-needed popularity on her, in spring 2003 in a press conference, she declared that she would never work with him again for personal reasons. I retype, “personal reasons.” The Salman-Aish chapter was done and closed.
A new chapter opened with Vivek Oberoi who was high on his career with the success of Saathiya and Company. This “relationship” lasted for a few public appearences, social parties, interviews (in which Oberoi went on to say that he was in love with Rai and will marry her and Rai had little to say about Oberoi except that he was a great co-star, a professional, etc.). Vivek even went ahead and called a press conference infuriated about Salman Khan threatening him. Recently, media reported that “the couple” has decided to split. A close friend to the couple revealed, “The main reason for their spilt is Aishwarya’s continuous refusal to acknowledge their relationship publicly. Moreover, Ash’s mother never liked him. They didn’t like Vivek professed his love for Ash on several TV shows.” Now, what I didn’t understand was why Aishwarya couldn’t say anymore than “he’s a great co-star” and smile at the camera. But I understand now. Just incase things don’t work out in the future (which they weren’t going to because it was never a relationship from Aish’s side), she, or a close friend of her can very conveniently say that she never admitted to her love for Vivek and that the two were “just good friends.” How convenient!
So, the file with Rai and Oberoi is closed as well. Now, is Aishwarya eyeing Abhishek Bachchan, who is also *suprise* at the peak of his career with Bluffmaster and a few awesome projects in the future? I won’t be surprised if she is. At a time like this when she is in Hollywood doing projects out of India, she needs to be in news back home and being linked with Abhishek will do it.
Here’s another oberservation: Whenever Aishwarya has said to have dated actors, Salman or Vivek, their career graphs have dropped. I hope that doesn’t happen to Abhishek.
A source close to the Aishwarya and Vivek also said, “Viveik had told a friend some months ago that Ash’s continued refusal to acknowledge their relationship publicly hurt him deeply. This was one of the main reasons they split. In fact, the same issue had bothered Salman as well - Ash never publicly acknowledged his presence in her life too.” Again, if she truly loved someone (Salman or Vivek), why would she not say at least something about that person being a special person in her life or something of that sort. But no, she addresses them as “good friends” or decided to say nothing at all. I don’t think that’s cool.
Disclaimer: This article is based on my personal opinion only and does not, in any way, relate to any company or website associated with me.
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Hey…sure it is good observation about her trend in picking boyfriends…She is not at all my favorite actress, but still….
how abt seeing it for a min in other point of view…
If she doesn’t want to talk abt her personal life in public whats wrong with it?
and if she is involved in an abusive relationship with salman, can’t she step out of it.
And with Vivek, things didn’t work out and he deserved to be dumped anyway….
And hey why is she a traitor….well she wants to try it out in new domain, whats wrong with it….I bet none of our successfull actors dare to do that because they would ” prefer to rule in hell rather than serve in heaven” ….yes, it is very normal to think this way…but the only reason behind it is that after having had their share of peaks they dont want to start from scratch again. Its not about hell and heaven, its about ruling and serving. They dont want to repeat all that struggle they had some years ago again….and Ash is bold enough to do that….may be one might not like it, but she doesn’t become a traitor because of that….And its not like she down played bollywood…she is acting in hindi movies too…
I do agree its strictly your point of view, but I thought I can add my point of view too…
Thanks for the input, Priya.
HEY
I THING ASH AND ABHI IS THE “JODI NO 1″.
HEY ABHI I AM ANIL AND MY BIRTH DATE IS ALSO SAME OF U
BUT I HAVE NO ASH BAD LUCK.5TH FEB 1987 BYE
I disagree with this statement or analysis. Ash was famous when she had an “affair” with Salman. Oberoi was dreaming about his affair and marriage with lovely Ash. It is ridiculous to keep paning Ash for everything. She never needed Khan for her career nor does she need Abhishek for her films or growth. she has far too much dignity and talent and grace to survive and do well. Twelve years on top of the heap in Bollywood, inspite of flops is something incrediable. She cannot be equated with an ordinary Bollywood star. Her name is a brand by itself.Her face her fortune and her trademark dignity. You are reading too much in to what comes in the gutter press and assigning balem unfairly.
i agree with greeta. plus many of aishwarya’s co-stars have commented on how beautiful she is as a person. salman said this when he was linked with her and so did vivek, now they’ve changed their minds. is that her fault. they just can’t accept that the woman known to some as the most beautiful woman in the world does not want to talk about their relationship publically. why should she? i cant imagine how difficult it would be having the media attempt to expose you. the only way i can think of it is, having your house burgled, would make you feel like youve been invaded of your privacy. why does aishwarya need to talk about her relationships. there are bound to be things that other actors keep to themselves, so why should this be any different? i respect the fact that Ash is around for her work and not to discuss her personal details.
hi
this is utter rubbish, how can you just say that ash requires publicity from her boyfriends.
i think she is much bigger star at least in popularity inspite of flops than salman , vivek or abhishek.
you just can’t blame her for not talking in public about her relationships, thats her wish.
in 12 years she has had just 3 relationships , the first one unluckily for her was abusive and the second was not worthy for her while the third one is rightly ‘jodi number 1′ .
that is why she had to move on..
she is a strong woman and has grace and is the true reigning queen of bollywood.
she is no traitor anyway..
i guess the press and maybe people like you are just jealous and say all sorts of things.. true trash…
other woman like rani or kareena might have had a dozen more ’starter’ relationships but the media never puts that into focus..
well, this is my point of view…
I think this time is going to be reverse - abhi is gonna dump aish . Aish doesnt have the stature comparable to bachchans . And it looks like this time she is eager one in this relationship. Lets see.
Time will tell. But Ash has proved herslef to be a lady over the years. Rumours have been only a rumour or spread by vested interests to damage her career. But her basic charecter and dignity has outshined and kept her head and shoulders above all others.
hi,
I just wanted to say that it is not our business about there life’s. why cant u people just leave them alone.Just like how we do not like if some one say something about us or if they inter fer in our life ,they r people to and they do not want any one missing with there personal life and so what if ash is a gold digger this is 2007, man we change and so what if some people change in a bad way ,it is there life we people just mind our business and just enjoy there movies,and that is it and vote for them and have a fan and that is it so yea i hope i did not say something mean that someone will get mad i just like to say what is in my mind so i hope nobody minds and sorry about the grammar i am at work and i am writing this in a hurry i did not check for any thing so i hope no one minds i know i do…….
hey,hi,salaam
Sara that was sweet, I think u r right we should mind our business,and halfe the people here probably have a missed up life 2 OR they probably doing the same as the celebrates. I think no one cares about the grammar . like the way u speak your mind i think every one should do that…….
hi ash
i m a great fan of urs
u looks really beautiful in jodha akbar
may bod gives u all the things which u want
take care